Curious · by Tomás Gómez · 2026-10-09
How do you keep learning when life gets busy?
168 sparks · 70 comments
Curious · by Tomás Gómez · 2026-10-09
168 sparks · 70 comments
Tola Ibrahim · 15 likes
a useful way to think about it is mechanism first: what changes, what stays constant, and what evidence would distinguish teh two. You will learn more from a simple version repeated three times than from a perfect plan you never start.
- Start small and make teh next step obvious.
- Keep notes so you can compare what worked.
- Ask someone with recent experience, not just strong opinions.
Source: mostly hard-won experience and comparing notes with people who stuck with it
Valeria López · 0 likes
That is the part people skip
Tomás Gómez · 12 likes
This is the kind of disagreement I like
Minh Nguyen · 1 likes
fair pushback
Tomás Gómez · 2 likes
adding this to my notes
Avery Johnson · 1 likes
Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot
Zeynep Demir · 19 likes
My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. It sounds small, but the conversation matters
Kabir Khan · 5 likes
This comment has main-character footnote energy
Mateo Cruz · 0 likes
Totally agree, especially for beginners
Ethan Brooks · 19 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. My friend tried it in Manila and had the opposite result
Aarav Sharma · 15 likes
A useful way to think about it is mechanism first: what changes, what stays constant, and what evidence would distinguish the two. You will learn more from a simple version repeated three times than from a perfect plan you never start.
- Start small and make the next step obvious.
- Keep notes so you can compare what worked.
- Ask someone with recent experience, not just strong opinions.
Come back with what happened; the details will make the next answer better
Narin Chai · 5 likes
@urban_aarav I would pin this if I could
Mariam Said · 0 likes
adding this to my notes
Tomás Gómez · 4 likes
I am curious what changed your mind
Tomás Gómez · 2 likes
That is a good boundary
Tomás Gómez · 1 likes
my wallet felt that
Diego Quispe · 14 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. I noticed the same thing in Berlin
Grace Parker · 14 likes
my practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. That is where the boring checklist helps
Tomás Gómez · 8 likes
I am stealing that phrase
Kabir Khan · 9 likes
My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. My friend tried it in Melbourne and had the opposite result
Pixel Fern · 4 likes
I was going to disagree, but your second sentence got me
Tomás Gómez · 9 likes
The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. My only addition is to make teh first step visible
Omar Hassan · 7 likes
That last line is excellent. For me it came down to the recipe. The scale of it still melts my brain a little
Pieter Botha · 7 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. I am curious whether questions still feels good next month
Bilal Raza · 7 likes
Helpful and not preachy, which is rare. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near the train station
Tomás Gómez · 1 likes
noted, and thank you
Alma Nilsson · 6 likes
This reminds me of something a friend in Lisbon mentioned. That is the kind of detail beginners miss
Amelia Hughes · 5 likes
My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. The surprising part is easy to underestimate
Pieter Botha · 5 likes
My practical advice is to make teh next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half teh question. The 4-minute rule is underrated
Theo Bennett · 5 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. That is where the boring checklist helps
Mango Orbit · 5 likes
Fair point, but I had the opposite experience. The Cairo example makes it feel concrete
Iryna Melnyk · 4 likes
the boring logistics are always the hidden part. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing. Now I want to read the paper behind it
Tomás Gómez · 10 likes
helpful correction
Finn Brown · 4 likes
Excellent timing; I was just thinking about easy. I am curious whether learning still feels good next month
Inês Ferreira · 3 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. The social part surprised me too
Tiny Lantern · 3 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. A little friction removed goes a long way
Mehdi Benali · 3 likes
The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. My only addition is to make teh first step visible
Gentle Fern · 3 likes
This is the kind of useful internet I still show up for
Mateo Cruz · 2 likes
The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. I am curious whether evidence still feels good next month
Noah Miller · 53 likes
fair pushback
Nour Ali · 10 likes
Beautifully concise
Siti Lestari · 1 likes
Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot
Daan Bakker · 3 likes
Beautifully concise
Huy Le · 2 likes
Same here. It took me too long to learn
Léa Bernard · 2 likes
This. Exactly this
Tomás Gómez · 4 likes
That made the concept click
Tanvir Rahman · 2 likes
This comment has main-character footnote energy
Aarav Sharma · 1 likes
Exactly; the hidden cost is energy
Faisal Al Saud · 5 likes
I laughed, but you are not wrong
Kabir Khan · 2 likes
Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot
Aarav Sharma · 1 likes
helpful correction
Amelia Hughes · 2 likes
Same here. It took me too long to learn
Quiet Sparrow · 0 likes
helpful correction
Priya Nair · 1 likes
I was going to disagree, but your second sentence got me
Noah Miller · 0 likes
That is the part people skip
Sanne de Vries · 2 likes
Interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 9 months. Honestly, teh simplest version wins for me
Maya Williams · 2 likes
I think the bad version of this advice causes a lot of frustration. The messy part is easy to underestimate
Imogen Clarke · 2 likes
The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. I would test it for 6 days before deciding
Camille Dubois · 2 likes
good reminder that boring can be good. I would love to see a follow-up after 3 weeks
Rohan Mehta · 1 likes
Wonderful detail. It makes the whole thing feel real. I would test it for 6 days before deciding
Kabir Khan · 5 likes
@in_river60 Beautifully concise
Noah Campbell · 1 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. For me it came down to the setup
Mango Panda · 1 likes
I am mostly here for the follow-up. I learned that one the expensive way
Sara Ahmed · 1 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. It sounds small, but the route matters
Mango Orbit · 1 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. My only addition is to make the first step visible
Zeynep Demir · 1 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. I would test it for 4 days before deciding
Huy Le · 1 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. This would have saved me a lot of trial and error
Yui Tanaka · 1 likes
Can you share what you tried before this? I keep a note about evidence for exactly this reason
Avery Johnson · 0 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. The social part surprised me too
Ethan Brooks · 0 likes
My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. The beautiful part is easy to underestimate