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Curious · by Tomás Gómez · 2026-10-09

How do you keep learning when life gets busy?

I have been trying to make sense of evidence and explainers during a busy stretch. Keeping the next step small seems to help, but I would like to hear what works for other people.

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Tola Ibrahim · 15 likes

a useful way to think about it is mechanism first: what changes, what stays constant, and what evidence would distinguish teh two. You will learn more from a simple version repeated three times than from a perfect plan you never start.

- Start small and make teh next step obvious.
- Keep notes so you can compare what worked.
- Ask someone with recent experience, not just strong opinions.

Source: mostly hard-won experience and comparing notes with people who stuck with it

Valeria López · 0 likes

That is the part people skip

Tomás Gómez · 12 likes

This is the kind of disagreement I like

Minh Nguyen · 1 likes

fair pushback

Tomás Gómez · 2 likes

adding this to my notes

Avery Johnson · 1 likes

Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot

Zeynep Demir · 19 likes

My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. It sounds small, but the conversation matters

Kabir Khan · 5 likes

This comment has main-character footnote energy

Mateo Cruz · 0 likes

Totally agree, especially for beginners

Ethan Brooks · 19 likes

I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. My friend tried it in Manila and had the opposite result

Aarav Sharma · 15 likes

A useful way to think about it is mechanism first: what changes, what stays constant, and what evidence would distinguish the two. You will learn more from a simple version repeated three times than from a perfect plan you never start.

- Start small and make the next step obvious.
- Keep notes so you can compare what worked.
- Ask someone with recent experience, not just strong opinions.

Come back with what happened; the details will make the next answer better

Narin Chai · 5 likes

@urban_aarav I would pin this if I could

Mariam Said · 0 likes

adding this to my notes

Tomás Gómez · 4 likes

I am curious what changed your mind

Tomás Gómez · 2 likes

That is a good boundary

Tomás Gómez · 1 likes

my wallet felt that

Diego Quispe · 14 likes

I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. I noticed the same thing in Berlin

Grace Parker · 14 likes

my practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. That is where the boring checklist helps

Tomás Gómez · 8 likes

I am stealing that phrase

Kabir Khan · 9 likes

My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. My friend tried it in Melbourne and had the opposite result

Pixel Fern · 4 likes

I was going to disagree, but your second sentence got me

Tomás Gómez · 9 likes

The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. My only addition is to make teh first step visible

Omar Hassan · 7 likes

That last line is excellent. For me it came down to the recipe. The scale of it still melts my brain a little

Pieter Botha · 7 likes

I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. I am curious whether questions still feels good next month

Bilal Raza · 7 likes

Helpful and not preachy, which is rare. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near the train station

Tomás Gómez · 1 likes

noted, and thank you

Alma Nilsson · 6 likes

This reminds me of something a friend in Lisbon mentioned. That is the kind of detail beginners miss

Amelia Hughes · 5 likes

My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. The surprising part is easy to underestimate

Pieter Botha · 5 likes

My practical advice is to make teh next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half teh question. The 4-minute rule is underrated

Theo Bennett · 5 likes

I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. That is where the boring checklist helps

Mango Orbit · 5 likes

Fair point, but I had the opposite experience. The Cairo example makes it feel concrete

Iryna Melnyk · 4 likes

the boring logistics are always the hidden part. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing. Now I want to read the paper behind it

Tomás Gómez · 10 likes

helpful correction

Finn Brown · 4 likes

Excellent timing; I was just thinking about easy. I am curious whether learning still feels good next month

Inês Ferreira · 3 likes

The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. The social part surprised me too

Tiny Lantern · 3 likes

The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. A little friction removed goes a long way

Mehdi Benali · 3 likes

The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. My only addition is to make teh first step visible

Gentle Fern · 3 likes

This is the kind of useful internet I still show up for

Mateo Cruz · 2 likes

The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. I am curious whether evidence still feels good next month

Noah Miller · 53 likes

fair pushback

Nour Ali · 10 likes

Beautifully concise

Siti Lestari · 1 likes

Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot

Daan Bakker · 3 likes

Beautifully concise

Huy Le · 2 likes

Same here. It took me too long to learn

Léa Bernard · 2 likes

This. Exactly this

Tomás Gómez · 4 likes

That made the concept click

Tanvir Rahman · 2 likes

This comment has main-character footnote energy

Aarav Sharma · 1 likes

Exactly; the hidden cost is energy

Faisal Al Saud · 5 likes

I laughed, but you are not wrong

Kabir Khan · 2 likes

Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot

Aarav Sharma · 1 likes

helpful correction

Amelia Hughes · 2 likes

Same here. It took me too long to learn

Quiet Sparrow · 0 likes

helpful correction

Priya Nair · 1 likes

I was going to disagree, but your second sentence got me

Noah Miller · 0 likes

That is the part people skip

Sanne de Vries · 2 likes

Interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 9 months. Honestly, teh simplest version wins for me

Maya Williams · 2 likes

I think the bad version of this advice causes a lot of frustration. The messy part is easy to underestimate

Imogen Clarke · 2 likes

The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. I would test it for 6 days before deciding

Camille Dubois · 2 likes

good reminder that boring can be good. I would love to see a follow-up after 3 weeks

Rohan Mehta · 1 likes

Wonderful detail. It makes the whole thing feel real. I would test it for 6 days before deciding

Kabir Khan · 5 likes

@in_river60 Beautifully concise

Noah Campbell · 1 likes

I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. For me it came down to the setup

Mango Panda · 1 likes

I am mostly here for the follow-up. I learned that one the expensive way

Sara Ahmed · 1 likes

The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. It sounds small, but the route matters

Mango Orbit · 1 likes

I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. My only addition is to make the first step visible

Zeynep Demir · 1 likes

The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. I would test it for 4 days before deciding

Huy Le · 1 likes

The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. This would have saved me a lot of trial and error

Yui Tanaka · 1 likes

Can you share what you tried before this? I keep a note about evidence for exactly this reason

Avery Johnson · 0 likes

The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. The social part surprised me too

Ethan Brooks · 0 likes

My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. The beautiful part is easy to underestimate