The delightful joy of doing the conversation badly at first from my weekend notes

I had a disappointing first try a surprisingly good second try, and then a third attempt that taught me humility. So, naturally, I now have opinions.

I tried this in Melbourne with a friend and we both noticed the same thing: the social part mattered more then the perfect plan.

Context: I am not an expert, just someone trying to make Coffee feel less intimidating. I wrote down what worked, what felt awkward, and what I would do differently next time.

Would love to hear how other people handle this. I am especially curious about the version that works on a tired weekday, not just on an ideal Sunday