A tiny story about pasta, Jakarta and timing on a budget

Tola Ibrahim · 137 likes

The kindness in this post is lovely. I am curious whether stories still feels good next month

Kabir Khan · 21 likes

I needed the reminder to start smaller

Midnight Otter · 5 likes

Beautifully concise

Priya Nair · 3 likes

I would love a follow-up example

Daan Bakker · 1 likes

Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot

Rohan Mehta · 6 likes

This has cozy competence written all over it. The a family dinner detail changes the whole answer

Brian Otieno · 3 likes

That last line is excellent. I learned that one the expensive way. The follow-through matters more than the perfect plan

Piotr Zieliński · 2 likes

This is the kind of disagreement I like

Amelia Hughes · 3 likes

Do you think this would work in a smaller place than Melbourne? The 2-minute rule is underrated. Small progress still counts

Ananya Rao · 3 likes

This feels a little overrated to me, even if the intention is good. I care less about the perfect answer and more about repeatability

Maya Williams · 3 likes

I am mostly here for the follow-up. That is the kind of detail beginners miss

Jan Nowak · 2 likes

I would push back gently on teh jakarta part. The low-effort version is probably teh keeper

Élodie Favre · 2 likes

I appreciate the honest middle stage, not just the polished ending. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing

Paper Runner · 2 likes

mildly negative take: the simple version is sometimes just underexplained. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near a family dinner

Sleepy Panda · 2 likes

Did anyone else read this and immediately make a tiny checklist? I keep a note about memes for exactly this reason

An Pham · 2 likes

Thanks that actually helped

Ngozi Bello · 2 likes

big fan of this approach. That is the kind of detail beginners miss

Chloe Davis · 1 likes

I wish more posts had this much context. My friend tried it in Buenos Aires and had the opposite result. Glad you shared the messy version too

Youssef Mahmoud · 1 likes

I am saving this for the next time I overthink timing. I keep a note about memes for exactly this reason. This is kinder advice than most of the internet manages

Sleepy Noodle · 0 likes

I disagree a bit. timing matters, but the bigger issue is usually expectations. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near a tiny balcony