A little texture study from this morning in Buenos Aires

Emma Tremblay · 52 likes

This is the kind of useful internet I still show up for. The awkward constraint is probably the real story

Mariana Costa · 2 likes

Same here. It took me too long to learn

Maya Williams · 1 likes

Kind of wild how often kind is the whole issue

Mariana Costa · 1 likes

anecdote beats theory here

Paper Atlas · 25 likes

This feels like advice from a patient friend. My friend tried it in Warsaw and had the opposite result

Theo Bennett · 23 likes

What would you change if you started over? The Mumbai example makes it feel concrete

Theo Bennett · 15 likes

What would you change if you started over? I noticed the same thing in Lagos

Tiny Rider · 12 likes

Beautifully put. I needed that reminder today. The gentle part is easy to underestimate

Gentle Baker · 5 likes

really good advice, and it feels doable. I keep a note about ecology for exactly this reason

Sara Ahmed · 3 likes

I think the bad version of this advice causes alot of frustration

Cedar Runner · 25 likes

This comment has main-character footnote energy

Nicolás Díaz · 4 likes

Can you expand on that a bit?

Valeria Flores · 1 likes

Exactly; the hidden cost is energy

Diego García · 2 likes

I laughed, but you are not wrong

Noah Miller · 3 likes

you explained the tradeoff really clearly. I keep a note about outdoors for exactly this reason

Amelia Hughes · 3 likes

@dev_noah77 The best answer in the thread, honestly

Amina Okafor · 2 likes

Appreciate the nuance

Cedar Baker · 0 likes

You just saved me a bad purchase

Jasmine Cruz · 3 likes

this is the kind of useful internet I still show up for. It sounds small, but the conversation matters

Sleepy Mango · 5 likes

my wallet felt that

Jasmine Cruz · 2 likes

That sounds great until you add children/pets/deadlines

Thandi Mokoena · 2 likes

Interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 5 months. A little friction removed goes a long way

Nima Ahmadi · 2 likes

The boring logistics are always the hidden part

Ethan Brooks · 14 likes

helpful correction

Rizky Pratama · 6 likes

The best answer in the thread, honestly

Ethan Brooks · 3 likes

That sounds great until you add children/pets/deadlines

Urban River · 5 likes

This comment has main-character footnote energy

Maya Williams · 0 likes

Kind of wild how often main is the whole issue

Mariam Al Mansoori · 3 likes

That is a much better way to say it

Valeria López · 2 likes

This is genuinely helpful, thanks for writing it out. I would test it for 8 days before deciding

Jack Taylor · 2 likes

What would you change if you started over? I used to overcomplicate this constantly

Gentle Noodle · 1 likes

There is a hidden assumption here that not everyone shares. That is where the boring checklist helps

Hugo Martin · 1 likes

mildly negative take: the simple version is sometimes just underexplained. That is the kind of detail beginners miss

Nicolás Díaz · 2 likes

I would pin this if I could

Curious Rider · 1 likes

That sounds great until you add children/pets/deadlines

Nicolás Díaz · 1 likes

my wallet felt that

Bianca Santos · 1 likes

I am saving this for the next time I overthink little. The social part surprised me too

Emma Tremblay · 1 likes

I am cheering for this update. The Monday morning version is even more interesting

Noé Petit · 0 likes

this feels like advice from a patient friend. I noticed the same thing in Manila