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Ask Orbit · by Rachel Tan · 2026-10-18

Is it normal to still want alone time after 2 years together?

My boyfriend wants to do everything together and I sometimes need a quiet evening to myself. How do you bring this up kindly?

23 sparks · 8 comments

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Bilal Raza · 9 likes

funny how alone time comes up right when I was arguing about it with my coworker

Amina Okafor · 5 likes

How do you explain needing alone time to a partner who wants to do everything together?

Yui Tanaka · 12 likes

I'd like to know how to explain it too.

Felix Weber · 13 likes

Can you share more details about what makes it complicated?

Solar Sparrow · 2 likes

Tried making more time for myself last month. It went okay at first, but got complicated.

Midnight Panda · 0 likes

Classic Monday energy

Rizky Pratama · 0 likes

How do you keep making room for alone time two years into a relationship?

Grace Parker · 2 likes

Underrated comment right here