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Wholesome · by Hugo Sánchez · 2026-10-17

Our 10th anniversary - tiny rituals that kept us close

We're ten years in and what's really mattered is small stuff: a morning coffee together, no phones at dinner. What small rituals hold your relationship together?

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Iryna Melnyk · 10 likes

I think the little rituals get overhyped, but there's something real in it

Mara Fischer · 13 likes

lol my cat would have done a better job

Lucas Silva · 4 likes

curious whether these little rituals still feel the same a year later

Sara Ahmed · 1 likes

me reading this at 2am instead of sleeping

Diego Quispe · 4 likes

honestly, the little rituals are more interesting than I expected. I don't hear much about the downsides though

Ethan Brooks · 8 likes

good point. though the cost side is still unclear

Mateo Cruz · 0 likes

ngl that made me laugh out loud

Solar Panda · 4 likes

tbh these little rituals matter more for regular people than the experts admit. the details matter

Jiho Lee · 6 likes

me reading this at 2am instead of sleeping

Curious Orbit · 0 likes

yeah same here, didn't think about it that way

Kabir Khan · 0 likes

not sure I buy all the hype around these rituals. nobody talks about the downsides

Beatriz Sousa · 6 likes

I thought the same until I actually tried it

Sanne de Vries · 0 likes

been thinking about these little rituals all morning. I don't hear much about the downsides

Hana Choi · 9 likes

me reading this at 2am instead of sleeping

Ethan Brooks · 6 likes

yeah same here, didn't think about it that way

Kabir Khan · 0 likes

I work with this stuff, and these little rituals aren't always as simple as they sound

Yui Tanaka · 6 likes

my wallet just cried reading that

Urban Fern · 0 likes

I tried explaining these little rituals to my dad and failed miserably, and that's fine

Hugo Martin · 8 likes

disagree a bit, but I see where you're coming from