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Ask Orbit · by Mehdi Benali · 2026-10-18

Boyfriend never plans dates - how do I bring it up kindly?

He's lovely, but I end up planning every outing and it's wearing me down. How do I raise this without sounding like I'm criticizing him?

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Rafael Almeida · 13 likes

Been thinking about being the only one who plans dates all morning lol.

Pixel Rider · 1 likes

could you share more details? genuinely curious

Cozy Noodle · 7 likes

Tried explaining to my dad what it's like being the only one who plans dates. Didn't go well lol.

Diego Quispe · 9 likes

could you share more details? genuinely curious

Elise Peeters · 6 likes

This is more interesting than I expected.

Ethan Brooks · 3 likes

I think cost matters more in planning dates than people acknowledge.

Emir Kaya · 7 likes

yeah same here, didn't think about it that way

Aisha Jacobs · 2 likes

this is the comment I was looking for