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Ask Orbit · by Maya Putri · 2026-10-16

Girlfriend wants to move in together after 6 months, too soon?

Things are great, but I worry about rushing. Money and space both matter to me. How long did you wait?

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Tiny Panda · 13 likes

The biggest costs of moving in together aren't always the ones people mention.

Theo Bennett · 6 likes

this. so much this

Zeynep Demir · 3 likes

Same experience here

Omar Al Falasi · 9 likes

We've had fun trying out living together on weekends :)

Noah Campbell · 7 likes

my wallet felt that

Chinedu Adeyemi · 5 likes

lol my cat has stronger opinions on it than I do

Ethan Brooks · 9 likes

cost vs benefit matters here, we ran numbers on moving in together and the payoff came later than expected

Brave Sparrow · 6 likes

lol my cat has stronger opinions on it than I do

Urban Marauder · 0 likes

wait until you see the invoice

Ethan Brooks · 2 likes

Would love to see actual data on moving in together instead of vibes. Anyone have links

Hamza Malik · 0 likes

send help

Diego Quispe · 1 likes

Anyone else tired of posts about moving in together? Feels like every other post is about it :)

Elise Peeters · 0 likes

Been there. Moving in together sounds simple until you try it with real constraints.

Brave Rider · 0 likes

we saw the opposite honestly

Thandi Mokoena · 0 likes

can you share what you changed