Boyfriend never plans dates, how do I bring it up without sounding naggy?

I always end up organizing everything. I'd like him to take initiative but I don't want a fight.

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Pick a time when you're both relaxed, not mid-argument.

Trade off weeks: your plan, his plan.

Fun system, we do that.

Give him a budget and a night and see what happens, results may be funny.

Pizza and a movie. Every. Time.

Maybe he doesn't know you want it. Some people need it spelled out.

True, mine needed a direct ask.

Say what you feel, not what he does wrong: 'I'd love to be surprised sometimes'.

I statements really work.

If it never changes after clear talks, then it's a bigger conversation.

Appreciate when he does try, it reinforces it.